Do women still need sex life after 40 years old ?

When people reach middle age, couples have long passed the passionate honeymoon period, and their feelings about Sex life at this time are mostly dull.

In particular, many couples are forced to separate due to the pressure of life, or are unable to focus on their emotional needs, causing their relationship to become distant.

For women, they are busy with various trivial matters in marriage, which greatly reduces their attention to emotional aspects, causing a certain degree of emotional deficiency.

At this time, they will not focus on emotional desires, but will focus on family or pursue other things to divert their attention.

As a result, they have less and less intimate actions with their husbands, and some women even ask for separate sleeps. This is a situation that occurs when the marriage becomes dull.

So, do women still need sex after they turn 40? Here are the real answers from three middle-aged women.

1. I have a physical aversion to my husband and don’t want to be intimate with him anymore.

Ms. Zhao, 41 years old, has been married to her husband for 16 years, but her marriage has become dull.

Over the years, her husband has never taken care of housework except for work, and all the chores at home are take care of by Ms. Zhao.

Since she gave birth to her baby, she has had a hard life. She is busy with housework and taking care of the child every day. She doesn’t have much time to think about matters between the sexes.

Especially when she saw that her husband was lazy, did nothing at home, and was always critical of her, she felt particularly aggrieved.

Moreover, her husband often went out to eat and drink with colleagues and friends, and he did not have much sense of responsibility for the family, which made her even more annoyed.

Because of this, the two had many quarrels, but neither of them could solve the problem fundamentally.

Later, Ms. Zhao was too lazy to argue anymore. She was extremely disappoint with her husband and felt very tired of her marriage life.

So she proposed to sleep in separate beds and no longer wanted to stay with her husband. She felt a physical aversion when she saw him.

It can be see that once a middle-age woman in marriage is disappoin with her partner. She will no longer accept his emotional needs. She will be very resistant to intimate behavior, and her marriage will be in name only.

2. I crave companionship more than emotional desire

Ms. Wu, 45 years old, has been married to her husband for 18 years and their relationship is relatively stable.

Over the years, the couple has relied on each other, gone through difficult times together, and their life has become better and better.

However, her husband is a businessman and is often not at home. The lack of her companionship makes her feel a little aggrieved.

However, she also understands her husband. After all, it is not easy for men to make money, and she has never blamed or complained.

However, she still hopes that her husband can spend more time with her and give her some emotional comfort and care.

Ms. Wu said that compared with emotional desires, she longs for her husband’s care and companionship more, and to be able to live together with him.

Therefore, whenever her husband comes back, she is particularly happy. Not only is she particularly gentle and considerate to her husband, but she also feels even more sorry for him. The two of them often confide their emotions together.

In fact, women after middle age are more lacking in love in their hearts, and they need the company of a partner.

After all, they have a hard time managing their families, and without the care and love of their partners, and without their warm companionship, they are bound to feel wrong and sad.

3. I have other pursuits and no longer need the other person.

Ms. Zhang, 51 years old, has been married to her husband for more than 20 years, and their love has long since turned into family affection.

Therefore, she feels that her emotional needs are not as strong as when she was young, but she has learned to give each other a certain amount of space.

In particular, Ms. Zhang had other pursuits. She not only learned to paint, but also often went out for running. She had no energy to focus on the trivial matters of marriage.

Moreover, her husband was busy with work and did not have much energy to accompany her, so she no longer forced him.

Ms. Zhang said: “I don’t need the other person that much anymore. I can live well on my own anyway. What’s more, I pay more attention to my own growth, have more pursuits, and find life more interesting.”

It can be see that some women will give up low-level desires after middle age and focus on more valuable pursuits.

Such a woman has developed one or two hobbies, and while taking care of the family, she has also achieved better development and lived a happy life.

Ye Feifei yff emotional message:

In summary, in middle-aged marriages, the relationship between husband and wife becomes increasingly dull, which is normal.

However, some women desire to be with their husbands in order to get more love and companionship.

However, there are still many women who do not need to be with their husbands all the time. Whether they feel aggrieved or disappointed with their husbands, they no longer focus on their emotional needs.

In fact, couples, whether separated or not, need to take the initiative to maintain a good relationship.

After all, marriage is not easy. When men and women can go from love to marriage, who doesn’t want to be with their partner until old age?

Therefore, I hope that couples in real life will actively maintain a good relationship and protect their marriage together.

Only by relying on each other and never leaving each other can we walk hand in hand into a happy future, do you understand?